{"id":597,"date":"2025-10-13T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/?p=597"},"modified":"2025-10-13T18:59:57","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T18:59:57","slug":"be-it-ever-so-cliche-well-that-thought-left-kinda-random-lotsa-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/be-it-ever-so-cliche-well-that-thought-left-kinda-random-lotsa-things\/","title":{"rendered":"Be It Ever So Cliche&#8230; (Well, that thought left!) Kinda random, lotsa things&#8211;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is Fall.  The weather&#8217;s finally acting like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which might explain why I spent most of Saturday asleep.  My body does this every once and awhile&#8211;commands me to sleep despite wanting to actually be productive.  Trying to fight it, especially on a Saturday with not much to do, seems futile.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The downside is that half the weekend is burned this way.  Could be worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At least I was productive Sunday.  I had a few things left at my old apartment, and I was able to have my nephew do cartage for me.  I have an old piece of furniture back in my room that&#8217;s around 40 years old, and I&#8217;ve used it to replace several smaller shelves and the like.  I also took the time to rearrange all the stuff stored under my bed so I can access it easier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I test for my purple belt on Friday!  I&#8217;m so excited. I never got to be a purple belt the last time I studied TKD from the ground up.  This time I get TWO levels of purple!  I&#8217;m so excited.  Now that I&#8217;ve broken a board with the top of my foot, it&#8217;s not as intimidating as it was two months ago.  I&#8217;m starting to get better at learning the self defense sequences.  It really is a &#8220;must walk before run&#8221; thing with me and my motor skill issues.  I have more gear, which means I&#8217;ve upgraded my bag.  Everything has its own bag, so I keep things organized.  (That and it&#8217;s a way to use the bags and pouches I keep collecting or making.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the 5th, I (gasp!) willingly went into a (century old!) bar, but it was only for the music.  Live ska\/rocksteady\/reggae!  With a DJ!  Forgot people have a modified version of a slam pit for this music.  (Aside:  Ok, so it&#8217;s now called a <em>mosh<\/em> pit.  But it&#8217;s a SoCal thing!)  Thankfully I was able to stay out of the way.  I just wasn&#8217;t up for dancing that close to a bunch of strangers who had consumed alcohol. On the bright side, non-alcoholic drinks have free refills!  And the taco I got was delicious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve learned this summer that I have a huge issue when it comes to being in a situation that has unchangeable flaws.  In this case, work.  If only I could be content to get paid to sit in an office with stretches of downtime.  There are so many people on earth who are, and it feels like I&#8217;m ungrateful.  It&#8217;s going to be a slow process getting used to this.  I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s temporary.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally started watching Stranger Things.  Revisiting that time period is fun.  I see its brilliance, though sci-fi-fantasy isn&#8217;t totally my cuppa.  Now having mob guys battle the supernatural would be cool.  (I&#8217;ll bet there&#8217;s an anime out there like this&#8230;)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Started dabbling in my fiction writing again, though that started last month when I got a couple ideas that made me giddy.  It&#8217;s been quite a weird journey, writing since Kevin&#8217;s death.  I&#8217;ve gotten over the &#8220;feel guilty because when you write you&#8217;re not making money&#8221; baggage.  I&#8217;m still getting used to the idea that anyone actually wants to read what I write.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is Fall. The weather&#8217;s finally acting like it. Which might explain why I spent most of Saturday asleep. My body does this every once and awhile&#8211;commands me to sleep despite wanting to actually be productive. Trying to fight it, especially on a Saturday with not much to do, seems futile. The downside is that&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/be-it-ever-so-cliche-well-that-thought-left-kinda-random-lotsa-things\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Be It Ever So Cliche&#8230; (Well, that thought left!) Kinda random, lotsa things&#8211;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4,71],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-journal","category-monie"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8fVx5-9D","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":366,"url":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/widowhood-season-6-2-stream-of-consciousness\/","url_meta":{"origin":597,"position":0},"title":"Widowhood Season 6.2: Stream of Consciousness","author":"Daphne Lightner","date":"July 3, 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Again with the music. 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