{"id":569,"date":"2024-07-26T21:55:35","date_gmt":"2024-07-26T21:55:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/?p=569"},"modified":"2024-07-26T21:55:35","modified_gmt":"2024-07-26T21:55:35","slug":"widowhood-season-9-04","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/widowhood-season-9-04\/","title":{"rendered":"Widowhood Season 9.04"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I had the memorial for Kevin.  It went way better than expected, in many ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recent songs in my head:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Catholic Girls&#8211;Frank Zappa<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mental Hopscotch&#8211;Missing Persons<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sickman&#8211;Alice in Chains<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Beat Goes On&#8211;Sonny &amp; Cher<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m enjoying my Contemporary Dance class.   Contemplating whether or not to sub ballet for Contemporary or add it to my dance pursuits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hot Tea during the summer is pretty good.  It helps that I&#8217;m in an air conditioned office.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking of offices, I think I just have to accept that winging it and expecting the unexpected are par for the course.  There are some great trade-offs for that acceptance.  Plus the commute is easy and if I need to leave early because I can&#8217;t even.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Man is it difficult to be a fully functioning human being sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Discovering new connections with an old friend.  It&#8217;s going to make my life better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s kinda scary just how much the movie Cabaret reminds me of the present day.  This childless cat lady is hoping for the first woman POTUS.  I&#8217;d rather have a prosecutor than a convicted felon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This isn&#8217;t quite 20 minutes, but I finally stat down to blog.  So that counts for something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Time to get some vacuuming done at work <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I had the memorial for Kevin. It went way better than expected, in many ways. Recent songs in my head: I&#8217;m enjoying my Contemporary Dance class. Contemplating whether or not to sub ballet for Contemporary or add it to my dance pursuits. Hot Tea during the summer is pretty good. It helps that I&#8217;m&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/widowhood-season-9-04\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Widowhood Season 9.04<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-569","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daphne","category-journal"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8fVx5-9b","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":580,"url":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/in-threes-indeed-another-letter-to-kevin\/","url_meta":{"origin":569,"position":0},"title":"In Threes, Indeed (another letter to Kevin)","author":"Daphne Lightner","date":"October 31, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"SB, I know you\u2019ve been with me lately. 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