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It’s a Bright Size Life<\/a> kind of afternoon. My life would be so different if it lacked the music of Pat Metheny. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once again, I want to write because I should, but my brain draws a blank. I kind of hate that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m one of those people who has to finish writing sentences or else I’ll forget my point. This usually happens because I have another browser tab asking for my attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m having a memorial for Kevin in a week. I have no idea what I really want to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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