{"id":437,"date":"2022-12-03T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-03T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/?p=437"},"modified":"2023-06-27T02:33:36","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T02:33:36","slug":"mostly-narrative-freewriting-12-looks-just-like-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/mostly-narrative-freewriting-12-looks-just-like-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Mostly Narrative Freewriting #12-Looks-Just-Like-You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(but didn&#8217;t she choose #8 in the end?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alrighty, November turned out to be quite interesting.  In a good way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Last week, I left the job that prompted my move back home nearly 4 years ago.  Happily, my pay rose $10 an hour during that time and the benefits have been very affordable and helpful.  It was a nice place to nest in for a bit while I started the next phase in my life.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was time to leave the nest and fly.  It was a amicable parting, and I took the time in my exit interview to point out a few things  that might benefit the co-workers I was leaving behind. I also left happy that the company covered the small expenses of the low-key Pride celebration we had this year.  (full disclosure: I suggested it to HR.)  I still don&#8217;t know what happened to my lunar new year&#8217;s red envelopes&#8211;though I suspect my desk may have gotten raided&#8211;some people are like that.  Take the $20 and the karma, then. . . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I landed much closer to home.  No more going up and over &#8220;the hill&#8221; on a daily basis.  The 12 mile commute took 20 miles of charge on the way to work going up and over that hill, and only gained about 7 back on the dowhill return trip.  (I drive in the most efficient mode there is most of the time.  ECO is never turned off.)    I haven&#8217;t really monitored how much my new commute is, because it&#8217;s the first week and I&#8217;ve had other things to do.  I&#8217;m pretty confident I could do a whole weeks&#8217; worth of commuting on a single charge.  There is a decent and convenient charging station a fair distance between home and work, too.  (Call it taking the &#8220;scenic route&#8221;, though the scenery is mostly industrial buildings.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The last time I worked this close to home was the support job I got as a newlywed.  Funny how the dot-com bubble burst <em>after<\/em> we eloped.  I knew it was too good to be true.  The dot-com heyday, that is.  I knew what I was getting myself into.  I guess I figured if my folks could do it, I could too.  But I got it part of it wrong back then.  Just because you have different tastes than your partner(s) doesn&#8217;t mean you aren&#8217;t compatible.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So yeah, the new gig.  I laugh as I recall a scene from the original Rugrats cartoon where they were &#8220;pushing paper&#8221; in an imagination sequence where they were grown-ups or something like that.  But in a good way.  There&#8217;s something to be said about helping someone else expand their nest.  I missed doing office work.  The day flies by and things get done.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oh yeah I started playing a second Pokemon Game&#8211;Shield.  I won&#8217;t play it nearly as much as I do Pokemon Go, but it&#8217;s fun and I get to see different Pokemon.  I have a Raboot now, for those in the know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m happy with myself for breaking out of my comfort zone, career-wise.  I developed and improved a lot of valuable skills, and I did the internal work to have the confidence to seek out something better for me and my household.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking of which, I should get to bed.  Sweetie&#8217;s been back a week and a half after working on the other side of the country for the better part of 5 months.  It&#8217;s great to have him back.  Though now Darling and I gotta figure out when to get our CSI: Vegas fix.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8217;23 is nearly here.  Still floors me sometimes thinking that the 1920&#8217;s was an entire century ago.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(but didn&#8217;t she choose #8 in the end?) Alrighty, November turned out to be quite interesting. In a good way. Last week, I left the job that prompted my move back home nearly 4 years ago. Happily, my pay rose $10 an hour during that time and the benefits have been very affordable and helpful.&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/mostly-narrative-freewriting-12-looks-just-like-you\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Mostly Narrative Freewriting #12-Looks-Just-Like-You<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[37],"class_list":["post-437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-journal","tag-freewriting"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8fVx5-73","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":604,"url":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/more-freewriting\/","url_meta":{"origin":437,"position":0},"title":"More freewriting","author":"Daphne Lightner","date":"November 21, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Why yes, my soul is screaming for my soulmate because 29 years ago we were on the verge of the trip to Tahiti. 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