{"id":266,"date":"2020-05-06T21:25:39","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T21:25:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/?p=266"},"modified":"2023-06-27T02:53:01","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T02:53:01","slug":"another-new-normal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/another-new-normal\/","title":{"rendered":"Another New Normal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I remember years ago, the &#8220;New Normal&#8221; for me was being grateful for the gift of a wheelchair so Kevin could go out without having to walk around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These days, it means spending a lot of time in my room.  I&#8217;m fortunate to have been working from home for the past 8 weeks.  I love my company, because they&#8217;ve been on top of the pandemic situation and slowly rolled out the necessary precautions since late January.  This is the kind of steady job that I&#8217;ve always wanted, but was convinced for years that it was a bad thing to want.  Funny how that goes sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve been writing fiction again!  My problem has always been completing a story.  I get too many ideas about key scenes and don&#8217;t go back to fill in the gaps.  So, I&#8217;m taking a different approach to it.  I&#8217;ll let people check it out once I have my content organized. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stumbled upon the SiriusXM channel 1st Wave about a week ago, courtesy of the TV service that gets beamed to the house.  My inner teenager is digging hearing songs that I haven&#8217;t heard in like, over a quarter century!  I&#8217;ve been using my Google Play account to build a playlist out of the songs I don&#8217;t want to forget.  Even some of the DJ&#8217;s are the ones I listened to back then!  My &#8220;Spring 20&#8221; Playlist also has a bunch of different stuff I discovered when making my own custom &#8220;radio stations&#8221; on Google Play based off of a single song and noting what I enjoy.  Jazz fusion, New Wave, and Motown, mostly.  It all mixes together fine in my mind.  Branching out a bit in music is good.  I&#8217;ve discovered and re-discovered a lot of good songs.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Much like when I grew up here but for much different reasons, I can&#8217;t go anywhere.  I do take an occasional  drive, especially now that the weather&#8217;s nice enough to drive around with the top down!  I don&#8217;t want to offer my thoughts on the current situation.  Well, I do want to go on record saying that while it is a drag to have to stay home all the time, and masks are a little awkward, it&#8217;s a lot better than being told what to do with my uterus.  Plus, technology nowadays has made it much easier to get things delivered and to stay in touch.  And yeah, with my &#8220;pre-existing conditions&#8221;, it can get very depressing to be away with my loved ones, but we&#8217;re all still alive and want to stay that way!  I don&#8217;t want to focus on all the stuff I can&#8217;t do.  I have it better than scores of my fellow Americans.  I can&#8217;t take that for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also enjoy being able to get up a half hour before work, because it means I have more time after work to relax and enjoy myself.  Then again, I&#8217;ve never really been a morning person.  If I didn&#8217;t have to stick to a normal work schedule, I&#8217;d so be a night owl.  I miss those days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So does this count as having written about the current Pandemic for future generations? \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember years ago, the &#8220;New Normal&#8221; for me was being grateful for the gift of a wheelchair so Kevin could go out without having to walk around. These days, it means spending a lot of time in my room. I&#8217;m fortunate to have been working from home for the past 8 weeks. I love&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/another-new-normal\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Another New Normal<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-journal"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8fVx5-4i","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":543,"url":"https:\/\/minimoog.net\/daphne\/in-the-clouds\/","url_meta":{"origin":266,"position":0},"title":"In the Clouds","author":"Daphne Lightner","date":"January 7, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Sometimes grieving someone is like having to fly in the clouds. 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