7/1/21 He’s all up in my playlist today. Stuff I haven’t heard in ages. The songs that comfort and help motivate as I make today’s use of Excel. Macros and Visual Basic, baby. Returning to my programming roots in a 21st Century way. It’s a living. This season, I have good job satisfaction. Home life… Continue reading Widowhood Season 6.1: Songs and Tony’s Teens
I’ve written before about some issues I had related to painkillers, sense memory, and survivor’s guilt. Here’s a little more: How does a widow process whatever emotion’s being pinged by some lower back pain brought on due to her spending a chunk of Saturday working on wiring while sitting on the ground? Like this I… Continue reading Pain as a Sense Memory Trigger
Kevin, It’s been 4 years and 4 days since you died. I’ve come quite a long way in that time. I’ve grown as a person and I’m happy with my life. Much of what you said was true–I’ve received tons of support and help, and I do not miss caretaking. I kept my promise and… Continue reading A Patently Open Letter to my Dead Husband